#60 - Weigh-in Wednesday, week 9  

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Kill me now.

Starting Weight: 367 (circa January 15, 2008)

Starting BMI: 57.5

Week 9: 346.2 (April 30, 2008)

Week 9 BMI: 54.2

Pounds Lost This Week: -5.4 (gain)

BMI Lost This Week: -.6 (gain)

Total Pounds Lost: 20.8

Total BMI Lost: 3.5

% Weight Lost This Week: -1.5% (gain)

Total % Lost: 5.7%

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Ok, not really, but I'm so... perturbed. Not angry, not even frustrated, but perturbed. On the one hand, I know I ate way more sodium than normal, what with the Chinese food Sunday night, and my stomach feels bloated and puffy, and workouts weren't the world's most on point last week. But on the other, I ate 2100-2800 calories each day, most days closer to 2100 and my recommendation is 2600, so I was undercutting some, though not by so much that it should have shut my metabolism down. Most importantly, there is NO WAY I consumed enough calories to put on 5 actual pounds- as in 18,200.

So... I know that I shouldn't be discouraged, and I am trying not to be. But 346 is what I was when I had the miraculous 5 pound loss, and now I have the horrific 5 pound gain. I only had one week with a gain since I started getting serious 9 weeks ago, and that was a measly pound and it was because I wasn't eating enough. This pretty much sucks.

That said, it isn't in vain, because it's caused me to do some serious soul searching. Why am I on the roller coaster of hi-highs (my reboot) and then lows where I just sort of plod along half-heartedly like this last week? Why can't I just be steady? Why do I get serious about truly letting Jesus break the grips of sin with regards to this idol of comfort (ie eating without conscience and utter laziness) and then the next week try to do it on my own power, trying to guilt myself out of eating bad foods?

To be sure, I have made progress. I have turned down delicious foods I used to indulge in (example: mayo, butter grilled onions, Doritos at an outdoor picnic for work last week... I had ketchup and mustard on my solitary sausage, and counted every calorie into my daily allowance), made conscious choices to control portions on small treats, etc, but I am not making myself exercise and I have periods, like last weekend, where I really loosened the reins on counting calories. There's no mistake or coincidence in the fact that my food journal tends to skip from late Friday afternoon to Monday morning. Friday evening through all of Sunday fades into the abyss. And that's bad, because now I am fatter, and probably losing muscle mass for not strength training but once in about 2 1/2 weeks.

When will enough be enough? When will I get real and get serious, and truly desire Jesus as #1?

I know I can give a pat answer, but pat answers helped me get to 367 pounds. I need to really evaluate this greedy, sinful heart of mine and get real.

And, of course, write about it on here. So stay tuned. And know that even if I write kind of random stuff in the meantime, a serious soul-searching is going on. I could come back in two weeks with it, or two hours. But it's coming. If you are of the loving Jesus type I'd appreciate your prayers.

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Well, i know it sucks to gain 5 pounds, and you do need to work harder, but those 5 pounds could be natural. Don't they sometimes gain weight on the biggest loser?

April 30, 2008 at 1:07 PM

I'll be praying... but what you said really struck me... 'when you try to do it with your own power' as opposed to His... I've never really thought about that... so thank you.

Now, on 5 lbs. Well, it could be a fluke, the worst part about being a girl is that those hormones wreak havoc on us (like if I weigh in Monday it's X and on my official Tuesday weigh in it's X+1 without fail)... don't beat yourself up, just move forward. It shows the progress that you have made that you're not self-medicating with food, and that you've recognized where you need to make changes. It's taken me a year to get there!

April 30, 2008 at 1:51 PM

I will pray for you. . . I also wouldn't freak about the five pounds. I think that most people let their eating slack on the weekend (totally guilty here!) and you have to find a way to make that work for you. For me, I don't eat much at all during the week, and then I can splurge on the weekend. I know that sounds like I fast and binge, but it isn't that extreme. Anyways, in my experience, a big loss is sometimes followed by a gain. And, vice versa, a gain sometimes precedes a big loss. Good luck with this week!
You know, a guest speaker @ my church had an interesting analogy for prayer this week. He said to think of prayer like putting all of your troubles in a backpack and leaving it at the feet of God. (He originally used the analogy for his young son.) You aren't giving them to God, just letting him watch them for you. And, anything you put in there, God will watch for you. But, if you don't give something to God in prayer, then he cannot watch it. What you bind up will be bound up and what you loose will be loosed (don't have time to look up the verse). Anyways, I liked the analogy, and I feel like it has helped me in my prayer.

Colleen

April 30, 2008 at 3:24 PM

dont be so hard on yourself, it happens to the best of us. trust me, I have had weeks where I hae gained too and I wanted to just give up! but then I worked hard and got back down there, and I know you can too.

April 30, 2008 at 4:53 PM

Could be that you just need a good crap, too.

May 1, 2008 at 10:06 AM

:) It definitely could be that. I nearly wrote about my bowel movements but then... for once thought that maybe it wasn't what the world writ large (because that's who reads my blog, clearly) wanted to delve into with me.

Still waiting to have one, though.

May 1, 2008 at 10:23 AM

I don't know how the five pounds came back - how annoying! - but I think weight loves to fluctuate. For what it's worth, I have realized in the last few months that even if I only average 1200 calories a day (the amount I need in order to lose two pounds a week), I will actually GAIN weight if I eat some of those calories after 8 in the evening. No matter how healthy it is, it seems that all and any food that I eat after 8 pm just turns completely to fat! Once I stopped eating after 8, I was finally able to really start losing weight faster!

May 1, 2008 at 4:30 PM

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