#25 - And I Know That It's A Wonderful World  

Posted by Tami Hagglund

I love spring.

To be fair, fall is my favorite season, but I love spring as well. I think it's the way the air just feels clean and fresh. It's not crisp like October, but I just love the way things start turning green and little flowers appear on trees you wish you knew the name of.

The irony is that the weather here was really beautiful last week. I was grouchy and whiny last week. Today, the skies are gloomy and overcast... and I find myself in the best mood I can remember. So random.

I love this song, btw: Wonderful World, by James Morrison

So, I used to have this habit on a previous blog of not writing all week and then just suddenly throwing together a long chain of updates in a deal that ended up being called list Thursday. I'm not necessarily going to always do that on here, but in honor of the ghost of List Thursday, I'm going to write 10 things I would LOVE about being fit. Actually, with props going to Darla here, allow me to altar my verbage: here are 7 things I WILL love about being fit!

#7 - The ability to run and hike.

Two things I really wish I could do are go running and to go for hikes. For one, I live in an amazing city (ok, I'll live officially IN Seattle in 3 months if all goes according to plan) for things like going for a run, and there are beautiful hiking trails all around. It's the glory of the Pacific Northwest! In fact, I'm tacking another one on here- I can't wait to be able to ride a bike, too. Right now, none of these things are really viable options. My body can barely handle walking for more than about 10 minutes before my lower back spasms like no tomorrow, and I simply can't sit on a bike. But someday... it shall be glorious.

#6 - Fitting into seats.

Just about any seat with sides is one I can't sit in. This includes some of my favorite things, like not wanting to die in pain while watching games at Safeco and Qwest field (the home of the Mariners and Seahawks, respectively). I avoid airplane travel at all costs. I had to go sit in the handicap section when Jas and I went to see a concert. Heck, even at church I spill over onto the seats next to me a little bit. I am terrified that I'll have to ride the bus and once again be the proverbial fat chick everyone despises- especially in my proverbially fit city. It will be awesome to simply fit into the seats and focus on the event and not how humiliated I feel. This also includes rides at amusement parks.

#5 - Being in Pictures

I hate being in pictures. I never think I look good. I know that's common, but it's not about retaking the photo to not have my eyes closed- it's about not looking like such a heifer! You'll notice that the picture has been "coming soon" for nearly two months. I just haven't been able to bring myself to further document just how utterly grotesque I have allowed my body to become. One of the most painful things I had to reconcile was when a photographer friend chose to not use my wedding pics in his albums that display his work. It wasn't so painful that he didn't choose to use the pictures as it was to realize that I completely understood why he might not want to. The sad truth is that maybe he just didn't feel it displayed his best work, but I will always feel ashamed that I looked so... fat.

So... I can't wait to not cringe when I see myself in a picture.


#4 - Having a body better able to have children

Being so big is really tough on my body in general, but body fat produces estrogen and estrogen affects fertility.  Jas and I aren't ready for kids, but if we were... I don't even know if I could get pregnant.  And then, if I could get pregnant, the chances of miscarriage at my size skyrocket.  I think carrying a child to term would just be so painful for my poor beaten and damaged body.  So, since we're looking at about 2 years before we try to get pregnant I have about 2 years to really get this body baby-ready!  My friend Bekah, who will burst any second now with her first son, has raved about how grateful she is that she was so in shape when she conceived- I want to follow in her footsteps!

#3 - Better Sex

So... speaking of babies, let's talk about baby-making!!  I'm not gonna lie- I really look forward to being thinner and more flexible because it will just open an entire new realm of possibilities in bed with my incredible husband!  Being so chubby just really gets in the way and limits our ability to enjoy one another the way Christian married couples have the liberty to... this reminds me that my pastor is preaching through the Song of Solomon this fall.  I can't wait!  So yes.  I sure can't wait to hear godly preaching on sex and then to go home and put the Word of God into practice!  Because we need to be doers of the word, not just hearers!  :)

#2 - Getting to shop in normal stores for clothes

Now, I have to be fair- I loves me some Lane Bryant.  They have these amazing pants called Right Fit, and I have to post later about how much they have changed my life!!  But I haven't been able to shop in normal stores... ever.  I was too poor to buy new clothes in middle school, and by the time I had a job and could buy some clothes in high school I was too fat.  I would love to be a rock star like Darla and score a new pair of 7 jeans (brand, not size!  They're actually called 7 For All Mankind) for $26!  I would love to be able to buy something at your average little sexy mall shop... I daydream about this!  I would probably be far more stylish because I a) wouldn't hate the way I look and b) it would cost less!  Lane Bryant is stylish but it's tough to get things cheap there- the really cute stuff is just too expensive and there's not much room in our budget for clothes.  But I will actually be able to shop at Nordie's Rack when get smaller.  I SO look forward to this :)

#1 - Overall confidence and health

I always feel like everyone is looking at me no matter where I am.  I am so often the fattest person in the room- or even building- wherever I am.  To not feel so... out there... would be so incredible.  To just feel normal.  To feel cute in normal clothes, to fit in chairs, to go out and do active things, to take more risks because my body isn't limited by my size (think things like sports activities- I've never done things like rafting or skiing/snowboarding or even maybe bungee jumping... it would be so cool!), to have more energy, to ride a bike and play with my kids, to have more fun creating those kids!, to just be more fit and healthy and active... oy!  I simply want it!  I need to remember that when I am working out so so hard and want to cry!

Ok, enough.  I adore you all.

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